Bonerboard

Imagine someday the love of your life has to go and he or she leaves a space forever in your soul. Imagine someday you just feel sick and tired of looking and waiting for the right one. What would you do -- the rest of your life? I just revisited this post, and felt like I could have added a little more in this topic, Love is a great part of our lives, true, but it isn't everything, even if you don't have someone romantically at your side, life is full of experiences and things to learn and do, sometimes we obsess ourselves with the idea that finding the love of our life will automatically make the rest of the aspects of our life be alright, and that's the biggest lie out there, because first when you try to suck the sense of fulfillment from your partner to cover the lack of it from all the other areas of your life (family, work, etc.) it ends up tiring the relationship, to the point where there is no more, second, you need substance, you need interests to have something to offer your partner, to have something to do when he's not around, to have something to share with him/her in your quality time together, to have something to do in your quality time alone, to share with your friends, to keep things interesting, we like to think that with just giving him/her all of our love the relationship will go always straight and smooth and that's that, but you know it isn't. and furthermore, you need other things to help you past the time when he/she's no more, to help you go by life if you never found him/her, because we have to face it, when that happens life is not going to wait for you to adjust, and we have to face that even if we want to continue with our life as it is, there will always be a hole in those things you always do for the two of us, and even if you get yourself a chance with a new person, there's always those kind of things that can never be replaced with someone new. So yes, there is life after that, you just need to be willing to continue living.