What do you think about crossdresser?

[veronica]

[JoelR]

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[bakersman94]

hey Veronica, i don't have any problems with crossdressing. it isn`t my bag, but i certainly wouldn't tell someone else they couldn't do it. it is a free world, and everyone has the right to do what they want, as long as it doesn't result in death, bullying, abuse, etc.!! i`m not sure it is crossdressing when one is gay and is dressing as the opposite sex as a lifestyle, but i have many friends who do just that, and i have always accepted them as still being my friends. who am i to judge how someone else dresses, as long as it isn`t being imposed on myself!! with love from Wes!! hugs!!! 

[Sammy]

It's definitely not my cup of tea. I want my women to be female, no dick please and my men to be male. I do not get turned on by anything in between: be it man in female underwear, shemales, or whatever.

But I try not to jugde anyone. Everyone has different tastes and kinks.

[Guest QuincyHouston]

I decided in the Spring of 2020 to get into the cross-dressing lifestyle and I wish I had decided this earlier. My plans are to only do it part time or occasionally when I have what I need to be in full CD mode. Until then yes I do wear jeans and jeans shorts for women, body suits, and boy shorts as much as possible everyday. My plans are not to cross dress to trick, deceive, embarrass, or humiliate anyone while I am in CD mode. I will be doing it for my fulfillment and to see how beautiful I can really be on the outside.

[Guest]

This is a very interesting topic to me, because my fantasy is to be with a masculine yet warm and kind man who wants a man who gives him the best of both masculine and feminine, although not necessarily both at the same time but that can be possible too. All this while still physically presenting as a man, in the sense of not wearing fake boobs, wigs, or going through some kind of physical change. He can refer to my pecs as my "tits", and I love to accentuate my curves, be it glutes, pecs, biceps, etc.  Curves tend to be associated with the feminine but they can be masculine too.

Sometimes I wonder if my fantasy is partially fueled by the desire to be the ultimate girlfriend/wife for a man, because so many men find women to be very high-maintenance and not as sexually hungry as men, and often not even as romantic even though the stereotype of women is that women are more loving and romantic but it's simply not true for many. Maybe I'm talking from my own experience lol. Anyway, the desire to be sexy and alluring while wearing things like sexy lace thongs, lingerie, sexy dancer oufits like a harem dancer outfit, and going out on a romantic date dressed in a feminine sexy way, is super hot to me. All building up the sexual tension till we get home in private and we can explode our passion onto each other...

Another part of the fantasy for me with cross-dressing is that the man who is with me has to be SUPER INTO IT, the same way a guy who is super attracted to his girlfriend and who appreciates her would act. After all, I'm giving this man my all, and so it's only fair he gives me his all as well. Would love for him to call me "lady", "beautiful", "my love" etc. And I want him to tell me how much he wants to suck my tits, eat out my manpussy or just my pussy, and of course I STILL want him to love sucking my engorged throbbing cock!

At the same time, I also enjoy the opposite side, which is dressing super masculine, e.g. cowboy boots and jeans, etc, and especially as a man's "boy toy" even though I'm in my 40s!

Either way, masculine or feminine, I still want to be with a guy who's masculine who is also warm, romantic, and classy.

Attached are some images that hopefully give an idea of what I mean by the feminine side, as the masculine style of dressing is probably obvious.

mf26.webp mf16.webp

Edited June 15, 2021 by SexyHunkster2021
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[Guest]

I also wanted to add that although I totally understand the view of "I want my men masculine and my women feminine", and I used to think and feel the same way, until I started to feel that the whole erotic foundation of cross-dressing is in its polarity of sexuality. In other words, yes I am indeed very much a man, and even muscular and masculine, and that is the whole point because I am now voluntarily and lovingly and passionately giving myself over to this man, to "be his woman" so to speak. This is not in some kind of powerless, submissive thing, because he in turn is so turned on and so in love and so passionate that there is nothing but love and respect, and appreciation. I am giving him something that no woman can give him- the voluntary decision to be "a woman" for him. It's my choice. So to me, this is really showing a man how much you want to be his woman.

My favorite site for it is X-Dress! I've attached images. Also love a lot of the designs from Candyman underwear!

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[Cuffed4u]

I love it!  There is something about seeing a what you believe at first is a woman and realize it's a guy love seeing guys in sexy panties or similar.  I wore panties for awhile and loved how it felt

[jonnie]

I love this post!

[Scott]

My personal opinion is this......I don't care for crossdressing or drag. So many people think it's an automatic thing for gay men. "Okay, you're gay so you must like wearing women's clothes"........Nope! Not this gay man! 🙄 😅 I'm not a masculine hunk stud muffin by any means, but I am a man who is comfortable being a man, who prefers to dress like a man, and who is attracted to men who dress like men. I say that if a guy wants to cross dress or do drag that's his choice, but it's not mine, nor do I find it to be attractive or appealing. 

[TR718993]

Personally I find it extremely hot.  

Then again I do have an underwear fetish, and a collection of panties that I wear.

...the bulge of the package beneath the panties and/or stockings, the ass framed by a much sexier cut of underwear

Different flavors for different folks.  Last night I slept panties, today I am wearing a jockstrap.