Top or Bottom

[Guest Dancenog]

On 1/6/2010 at 8:16 AM, Cool_a said:

Hey guys..

Thought it might be fun to ask whether you prefer to top or bottom.

 

 

 

Oooh I like u. Get to the core stuff straight away. Hahaha. 

Top. 

But if I bottom what turns me on is the guy getting off not what it feels like

[Cool_a]

22 hours ago, Dancenog said:

But if I bottom what turns me on is the guy getting off not what it feels like

It's because I love a stiffy drilling in to me trying to find oil, and how hot that feels..

Is why when I top a guy, it's all about pleasuring them. 

The sounds he makes and sharing his sexual energy is the turn on.

Not the actual fucking.

[BearChuck]

I'm a 100% Top, only tried to bottom a couple of times with a bud but it wasn't for me.  Love feeling a tight young body squirm under me while I'm pumping him full of my daddy bear seed 

[Guest Dancenog]

1 hour ago, Cool_a said:

It's because I love a stiffy drilling in to me trying to find oil, and how hot that feels..

Is why when I top a guy, it's all about pleasuring them. 

The sounds he makes and sharing his sexual energy is the turn on.

Not the actual fucking.

But sometimes I want the top to let go and go full on and almost forget about my pleasure. Is that bad!!!!!! I don't want to be attacked or anything. Am not that weird

[Cool_a]

 

11 minutes ago, Dancenog said:

I don't want to be attacked or anything.

In all my little sexcapades with strays, I've only been raped once.

Even then, I didn't realize it until the next day.

I had a really rough sex encounter where the guy fucked the bejeezus out of me, and the whole thing just hurt like hell.

But I never stopped him, or said no. It never occurred to me at the time.

I remember I was waiting to cross the lights on the street and a guy walked up close to me, just in the normal way.

Fear gripped 100% of me, and I reacted by moving out of his space instantly, instinctively.

It was only when I worked out why that had happened that I realized it was an emotional reaction to the previous night.

So, briefly, I learnt the reaction of a woman who has been raped, when a man comes a bit close to their personal space.

Didn't impact on my sex career though.

[Guest Dancenog]

2 minutes ago, Cool_a said:

 

In all my little sexcapades with strays, I've only been raped once.

Even then, I didn't realize it until the next day.

I had a really rough sex encounter where the guy fucked the bejeezus out of me, and the whole thing just hurt like hell.

But I never stopped him, or said no. It never occurred to me at the time.

I remember I was waiting to cross the lights on the street and a guy walked up close to me, just in the normal way.

Fear gripped 100% of me, and I reacted by moving out of his space instantly, instinctively.

It was only when I worked out why that had happened that I realized it was an emotional reaction to the previous night.

So, briefly, I learnt the reaction of a woman who has been raped, when a man comes a bit close to their personal space.

Didn't impact on my sex career though.

I definitely don't want to be raped.  Just when I say go for it and not consider my feelings I mean all within context. I think people I have been with are focused on ensuring that I'm enjoying it too much to go for it. That's all. If it's agreed then if I changed mind midway I would expect them to stop. Maybe I'm naive

[Cool_a]

I expect the guy has no idea of my reaction the next day.

He probably thought we had the best time.

 

 

 

[Guest Dancenog]

2 minutes ago, Cool_a said:

I expect the guy has no idea of my reaction the next day.

He probably thought we had the best time.

 

 

 

By the way you said sex career....... 

[Cool_a]

We all have a sex career.

Like me, most have a very low hourly rate.

Come and get it for free.

 

[Guest Dancenog]

13 hours ago, Cool_a said:

We all have a sex career.

Like me, most have a very low hourly rate.

Come and get it for free.

 

On way 😂 

[palmtreebum]

I'm a top only...

[Jockslave57]

Bottom all the way. Since it is a faggot slave, there is no other option for it.

[palmtreebum]

@Jockslave57 nice. Are you muscular? 

[robertrolwing]

BOTTOM🙃😊

[duck]

[Davie]

Bottom, baby!!!!

[Stitch]

Versatile.

[COCKConnoisseur]

For an oral only HOMOSEXUAL, is a COCKSUCKER on his knees considered to be a "bottom" while his stud is considered to be a "top?"

If so, then I am a oral-bottom only wannabe.

Edited February 11, 2020 by COCKConnoisseur

[gardenrhubarb]

I made it through four years in a college dorm on the top bunk and never had any problems. These days, I love to bottom. It feels so good when a hard to cock slides into my hole and I like the feeling of being controlled by a man. I get pleasure from his pleasure!

[tbill]

Bottom!

[titbug]

While it has been so long since I did either that I might actually be closer to a virgin than a top or a bottom at this point, I identify as versatile.
And I would prefer to be in a relationship with someone who also IDs as versatile - even if they prefer one or the other, that's fine by me but I don't want the door locked even if I never try to open it.
Makes sense?

 

[Cool_a]

On 2/14/2020 at 9:03 PM, titbug said:

While it has been so long since I did either that I might actually be closer to a virgin than a top or a bottom at this point, I identify as versatile.

Ditto.

 

Hi there fellow virgin.

@titbug

I'm sure it grows back.

[stuck]

I have bottomed a few times and it just wasn't for me. I prefer to top. It's quite a turn on

for me to watch my cock go in and out of a tight butt and my partner loves to bottom so

it's a win- win situation for the both of us 🙂 

[Sirjames]

Top only.

[Matt8816]

mainly bottom.