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I so needed to read this tonight and thank both of you from the bottom of my heart.

It makes me sad to read of the passing of your neighbor. Nothing we can take for granted. Nothing. For me, life is a journey that we begin at birth. That is also the reason why I understand life as a continuous change. So I understand everything you've written. "Stay as you are and you'll go far!" That is a sentence that I personally would not accept in this way. If I stay as I am, I would stagnate in my further personal growth. Personal growth has nothing to do with material things. But you had already qualified the essence of the statement. "I recommend that you begin by never looking back with any real regrets because everything you did is what got you to where you are today..." This is very similar to the advice I got years ago, which I have deeply internalized. "Never regret a decision. At the moment you made that decision, it was the right one." Of course, it may be that this decision has led us down the wrong path. As soon as we recognize this, we have to make adjustments. Regrets limit our ability to see our positive vision of the future and we waste energy uselessly. However, we need this energy to make the necessary corrections in order to find the right path again. I totally agree with you. On our journey through life there are many people who accompany us a part of the way. Some accompany us a small part of the path. Few, very few are permanent companions... These few people are the most important in our lives. They are the ones who hold up a mirror to us, who criticize us. They are at the same time those who support us and do not try to pressure us into their own world view. Living a happy life is too often associated with the material view. It is more meaningful and important to enjoy the many little things around us. We only need to open our eyes. My husband took this photo in our garden last year. @Kawika Thank you for sharing your thoughts and planting these positive seeds.

I have no idea who called . But wrote his 100th blog entry. I would like to congratulate for that.

Thank you Wes... I would love to meet you sometime too. I love giving and getting hugs... as far as the circumstances of life... life has a funny way of delivering sometimes... it might be the lottery or it might come someplace from left field. I'm glad you have friends who love you and support you for who you are... as for the others... If they can live without you... then let them. It's their loss not yours. me ke aloha XXXOOO

hey Kawika, i love that you care about us. i also care about you!! one of my things would be to be able to meet you in person, and you can count on getting a hug, love giving and getting hugs. i know where i want to be in life, but i don't have the means. with my going on 70, it is hard to go out and get a job, if you know what i mean!! my best shot would be winning the lottery, but that's a pipe dream that may never happen. i love my family, and i love my friends, especially my friends from the gym. i told a few of them i am gay, and they told me it was ok, that they were still my friends, but not all of them. i`m not sure some of them would understand, or would think i was telling them because i had the hots for them. that`s the last thing i need, is to have Men i am only friends with, think i`m in love with them. even if that love is the love of friendship. with love from Wes!! Hugs!!!

Nice collection 🙂

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