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How many thinks he was born gay?


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I was born gay and knew that I liked men when I was five years old.  Didn't care about Cinderella but loved looking at the handsome prince.  Loved Hercules and Tarzan movies.  As I got older, not only was I not interested in girls but the sight of bare breasts gave me the same reaction I got when I saw a spider.

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i knew i was attracted to men at 2 and 3 years old. if a men picked me up, as some adults to to show affection for the child, because they loved children, and he kissed my cheek, and i felt his whiskers on my face, i could feel the blood rush to my penis, and i really liked that feeling. girls made good friends, but i never once saw them as sexually attractive.

i knew i was different at t2 and 3 years old, but i was smart enough to keep it to myself. i was always a shy guy and never came out until i was 32, but when i came out i came out to everyone. something i wished i hadn't done, but i felt so liberated admitting i was gay, that at the time, it seemed like the right choice. my mother was convinced i was just confused and thought if i had sex with a woman i`d come around, LOLOLOL!! 

the sad part is, i was and am still so picky, i only had one night stands when i started having sex with men, but never ever having had a boyfriend, to experiment with sexually, i never knew what to do when i was with a man. having them push themselves on you with their wanting me to suck their cocks, was something i didn`t want to do. hence the reason for only one night stands. no one wanted to be with me a second time.

even though sex with a man is something i want more than anything else in the world, it scares the hell out of me when the opportunities arise!! 

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Kindness.

Trust.

Respect.

Friendship.

 

You may be surprised how natural and beautiful it can be if the right elements are in place.

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I've been attracted to hot muscular Caucasian studs with beautiful thick tightly Circumcised COCKS with big delicious looking full plump flared HEADS ever since I can remember. I used to jack off while looking at my sister’s Playgirl magazines when I was only 11 years old. I’d wait until I was “HOMO-alone,” grab her magazines, undress, place the magazines on her bed, kneel down by the bed, and flip through the pages of that glorious magazine. My skinny little penis got so hard looking at all of those delicious looking, full, plump, flared HEADS on those hot Caucasian stud’s beautiful, thick, tightly Circumcised COCKS. It didn’t take long before I would Cum.

So, I believe that I have always been a HOMOSEXUAL, but I am not gay.

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We're supposed to be born 'gender neutral", with the environs during the first approximately three years supposedly "setting" our identities, especially where sexuality is concerned.  While some (including myself) believe they were "born gay", it is probably what went on during those three years which determined sexuality.  I know I don't have any recollections of those years, but do remember that by age 5, I knew something was different, because girls ceased to exist in my realm of reality (except those whom I got close to in order to create subterfuge) and I lusted in my immature way to kiss the handsome boys in my school classes.  Later my object of desire in males moved lower on the anatomy.

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This is a great question  Personally I think I am bisexual, but the more I expose myself to gay porn, the more gay I seem to become. I am married and deeply in the closet concerning my gay desires. I have to honestly say that the thought of sucking a hard cock turns me on more than sex with my wife. I have felt this way ever since my male cousin and I fooled around as teenagers.  Was I born this way and simply in denial all this time? Maybe.

 

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On 5/28/2021 at 11:43 PM, KenHoo said:

This is a great question  Personally I think I am bisexual, but the more I expose myself to gay porn, the more gay I seem to become. I am married and deeply in the closet concerning my gay desires. I have to honestly say that the thought of sucking a hard cock turns me on more than sex with my wife. I have felt this way ever since my male cousin and I fooled around as teenagers.  Was I born this way and simply in denial all this time? Maybe.

 

Ken, we have much in common. I am in the same situation and feel the same way. Love my wife and enjoy our life together, and lovemaking together. But the strongest sexual desire I have lately is to be with a man who understands, who I can hold close and explore everything together.

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On 5/29/2021 at 12:43 AM, KenHoo said:

This is a great question  Personally I think I am bisexual, but the more I expose myself to gay porn, the more gay I seem to become. I am married and deeply in the closet concerning my gay desires. I have to honestly say that the thought of sucking a hard cock turns me on more than sex with my wife. I have felt this way ever since my male cousin and I fooled around as teenagers.  Was I born this way and simply in denial all this time? Maybe.

 

I feel you, man. The part where you wrote "the more I expose myself to gay porn, the more gay I seem to become" especially hits home. For so many years, I was obsessed with women, both emotionally and physically, and yet these days I am obsessed with so many different fantasies of men, although I haven't actually been with any man because of my anxieties about catching stis, etc. Also, I wonder how to find a woman who would be cool with a guy who is truly bi and be cool with starting a family with him. I'm sure there are women out there who exist like this, but not sure how to find them. It seems our mainstream society finds it "hot" when a woman is bi, but doesn't seem to appreciate men being bi in the same way. Which is absurd, because men can be so HOT 🙂

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It's interesting to me too because anything one likes about women, you can sort of find it in men. If a guy likes women who are small and petite, there are twinks and small and petite guys. If a guy likes full sized, fit/toned women with big boobs and great asses, there are men with great pecs like tits and great asses. In fact, there are more kinds of men because men can change their bodies more easily by putting on more muscle than women can. So men can not only lose weight, but they can also pack on muscle. Plus gorgeous, thick, fleshy, hot, sexy, throbbing, juicy, big COCKS! 🙂

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This is a very interesting topic guys.

Here's my input. I'm pretty sure I was born straight. I say that because I never had even the remotest interest in Men until I started looking at them naked online. I used to find the idea of a naked man quite abhorrent in my younger years. 

However going back to your point "the more I expose myself to gay porn, the more gay I seem to become"

Slowly over a period of a few years I have come to absolutely love them. I have come to the point where I know exactly the type of man that turns me on. I now find that a leg, or foot, or belly, or a nipple, or a hundred things about a man can totally make me drool. I can spend hours looking at videos of naked men walking around and be totally aroused the entire time.

I have a strong desire to be with a man at some stage because of this. All of this has come from going to gay sites and looking at naked men.

But here's the strange thing, I haven't become any less interested in Girls. I still adore them and I spend plenty of time online looking at them naked too.

I have never actually met a man in real life that I am attracted to (but I want to), whereas I meet girls every day that I want to be with.

So, am I bisexual now? Was I always? Or has porn changed me? (I don't regret a single moment of it. This is a fun journey)

Interested in peoples thoughts on this. 

 

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14 hours ago, Honakme said:

This is a very interesting topic guys.

Here's my input. I'm pretty sure I was born straight. I say that because I never had even the remotest interest in Men until I started looking at them naked online. I used to find the idea of a naked man quite abhorrent in my younger years. 

However going back to your point "the more I expose myself to gay porn, the more gay I seem to become"

Slowly over a period of a few years I have come to absolutely love them. I have come to the point where I know exactly the type of man that turns me on. I now find that a leg, or foot, or belly, or a nipple, or a hundred things about a man can totally make me drool. I can spend hours looking at videos of naked men walking around and be totally aroused the entire time.

I have a strong desire to be with a man at some stage because of this. All of this has come from going to gay sites and looking at naked men.

But here's the strange thing, I haven't become any less interested in Girls. I still adore them and I spend plenty of time online looking at them naked too.

I have never actually met a man in real life that I am attracted to (but I want to), whereas I meet girls every day that I want to be with.

So, am I bisexual now? Was I always? Or has porn changed me? (I don't regret a single moment of it. This is a fun journey)

Interested in peoples thoughts on this. 

 

Wow, so much of what you say feels true for me as well. I was obsessed with women, and couldn't even understand the concept of a man being attracted to a man. Entering a male strip club and seeing well-built naked men, and gay porn on the club's TV monitors, got the ball rolling. After that, I started to notice the beauty of men. I remember at one point after the visit to the club, seeing a photo of men's underwear with a nice bulge in them, and finding that bulge to be almost hypnotizing as it was so erotic and arousing. And then realizing that I could get aroused from the sight of a hot male ass, pecs, legs, etc. I still find some women to be attractive as well.

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I was born to an Irish- Catholic family in Boston.  I believe I was born gay....always interested in men....in the high school, locker room, etc. -- however I never acted on it with the exception of one blow job I received at 18, and felt severe guilt about it for many years....I married (a woman) at 27 and raised 3 kids (all now in their 30s)....divorced in 2014......in 2007,  while working in Wall Street, I met the man I consider the great love of my life-- a Parisian.  I had an affair with him (while also being married) for nearly 2 years....we were both deeply in love, but alas I guess it was not to be....at the end of those 2 years, he decided he could not continue the relationship.  I have not been in a relationship since 2009...tough have had plenty of casual sex....I summoned the courage to face my sexuality and went thru a 2 year divorce proceeding in 2012.......after all this heartache and passage of time....I have come to be again open to love.....though have learned one needs to grow into true love....it's not just about hopping into bed and going for it....as much as I enjoy sex.  With C19 subsiding, I am now again open to meeting a guy for friendship and romance.

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Does anyone else who is bi feel the following? When I'm not very horny, I tend to think more about women, both their looks and romantically, and I don't think about men. But when I am really horny, I immediately think of men, both in terms of sensuality and raunchiness.

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Completely gay, never any question or wondering for me. Even as a boy, I knew I was more interested in what other boys or men looked like and I knew that other boys didn't think that way and I knew it was a secret. I did everything all the boys who grew up straight did, but knew I thought differently. 
And that day when I was about 8 and spotted the cover of a Playgirl magazine with a furry chested, shirtless guy in jeans, I distinctly remember something kind of clicked, I had that funny feeling inside me and I knew that Playboy mags weren't as interesting anymore:)

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The evidence is pretty overwhelming, from many angles, that sexual orientation is probably determined by birth. It's certainly not entirely genetic, since in a minority of cases, there are identical twins with different sexual orientations. But something goes on in the womb to determine the sexual orientation by birth. There is a Wikipedia page which discusses the variety of different pieces of evidence which all point to sexual preference being hard-wired. These include the fact that when gender is changed at birth, for example when the penis is injured, and the boy's sex is re-assigned to a girl and raised as a girl, the sexual attraction is almost always towards females. There are also studies which have shown birth order and certain antibodies to be involved, as well as purely anatomical studies showing that brain structure is physically different between gay men and straight men (with the structure of gay men in certain parts of the brain being similar to that of straight women). The massive number of studies is discussed here:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biology_and_sexual_orientation

It's interesting that little study has gone into bisexuality. In particular, for example, I'm astounded that there have been no studies on the physical structure of brains in bisexuals. I would love to see those studies completed. I know that true bisexuality must exist, since I know of at least one man who's paid for sex with both men and women. I'd be extraordinarily interested to see if the brain structure is more like a gay man's, a straight man's, or somewhere in between. Or could it be that most bisexual men were born gay, but then got conditioned from society to have carnal interest in females? That's still a huge gap in our scientific knowledge. But we do know a great deal about what makes a man gay  vs straight. 

 

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Autobiography, brief version. 
Age 5-6: My neighbor buddy and I regularly explored the coastal forested parts of the farms where we lived, and often explored each other’s nakedness without, of course, any sexual response. 
Age 10: My 16-year-old camp counselor’s fit, naked, mature body caused me many deep, complex feelings which I sensed by my upbringing I needed to conceal. Conditioned to be an American cisgendered man, I knew this was wrong in the world.
Age 12: 1972 summer Olympics. Swimmer Mark Spitz achieved 7 gold medals and his tall, Speedoed, but otherwise naked male perfection was displayed continuously on national TV. My sexual system was intact and I experienced wet dreams and self-taught masturbation. This was the first time my eyes saw the unfiltered naked male form so prominently shown. 
Age 16-18: I dated girls, made out, and never once felt the slightest stir of arousal. However, during the same period I was having weekly sex (oral and anal) with a 30-something year old man; seduced by him, yes, and I unquestionably do not condone such relationships among boys and men but, back then, I know I was also complicit in seducing him. There was never any question which gender aroused my libido. Primary and secondary male sex characteristics have never ceased to be at the center of my sexual attraction, and my psyche and body have responded to such without exception. 
Age 62: Having sired two children in my 20’s which I consider an anomalous break in my consistency, I nevertheless instinctively continue being drawn to the male mind and corporal body. Nothing has changed; it’s only intensified. 
Was I born this way? There’s no argument. Yes. 

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