Big Gay Talk: How to keep from seeming too desperate?
How would you help out user TheHeartbreakPrinxe, who asks:
Okay, so, I’ll be the first and last person to admit that i can get a little...attached too quickly. I have a tendency to dream of the person I’d like and project that onto whoever it is that I date or start seeing; obviously it fucks me up. How do I keep myself at a healthy distance and to keep myself from creating a Mr. Perfect in my mind and then creating this air of puppy love around Mr. Garbage? I also am a very sensitive someone, my feelings can get hurt if I interpret a text differently and I then I feel like I have to over analyze and then question everything. I also tend to worry that I’m saying too much. How do I know what I’m doing is the right thing? Like, how do I keep my chill? If it isn’t obvious already I’m a hopeless romantic. Help. I don’t want to seem crazy or too desperate. I’m 29 and it’s been the same thing, again and again.
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