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Dustin McNeerNo, the guy in the photo isn't me. This is Dustin McNeer. I just love his smile, his physics.

I was born and grew up in Munich, Bavaria. Bavaria is part of Germany, Germany is part of Europe. My origin is a part of me and I don't want to deny my roots, but I don't feel as Bavarian or as German. I don't want to think within those boundaries. I'm just a human being, living on earth - not more, not less.

At some point I found out that I was not only interested in women, but also in men. The latter has become even more prevalent than I ever thought.

My first relationship with a man turned out not to be good for me. It was a gradual process that he isolated me from family and friends. Later he beat and raped me. He apologized and regretted it and I forgave him because I loved him. But it happened again and again. At some time I reached the point where I only had two options left. Either I disappear in the dead of night, afraid he'll find me, or I kill myself. Guess what option I chose.

I literally started a new life. I escaped to another town, changed my name. My middle name became my first name. That's why you know Tommy aka Thomas. For the first few months I lived in my old rickety car, continued my studies and had several jobs on the side. When I finished my studies and earned my first doctorate in economics, I was still living in a very nice flat-sharing community. 

My sex life can be classified as excessive. I had countless one-night stands. I never wanted a relationship again. 

I failed.

To make a long story short, almost ten years ago I fell in love unexpectedly. Today he is not only my best friend and the love of my life but also my husband since last month. :tiny-smileys-yesemoticons-020:

 

My friend @RunItsBlip wrote recently in a thread of me:

change is neither good or bad

good is good

bad is bad

change is change

and all three are

on occasion necessary

 

Bad things happened to me, good things happened to me. I don't want to miss anything that's happened to me in my life. It made me the person I am today. I know that I can get up again when I fall. 

Life is an adventure, life is change.

 

If you want to know more details about me, just visit my profile.

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suzienudie

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Best to you dear! 😘

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No, the guy in the photo isn't me. This is Dustin McNeer. I just love his smile, his physics.

And I am calling you out & say BS on that pic not being you! Admit it! Quit being so modest! 😂😊😘

Much ❤️
SN

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Sammy

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I am disappointed. I expected 🍆 pics. 😂

I don't mind if you post those of Dustin McNeer btw. :tiny-smileys-yesemoticons-023:

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anubis

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Congratulations on the marriage.

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walt

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❤️❤️❤️

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bakersman94

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i also want to congratulate you on your marriage!! my heart goes out to for all you have been through, and i am so glad you are still with us today or i would never have gotten to have met you and became friends!! with love from Wes!! hugs!!! 

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suzienudie

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31 minutes ago, malelover said:

 Can I tell you a secret? Tommy is Dustin's doppelganger or vice versa. :hubba_hubba-404:

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JoelR

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On 7/1/2019 at 11:45 AM, Tomster said:

I'm deeply sorry, but I didn't expect you looking for eggplant pictures. 

That's a big eggplant.  

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Mozel-Tov on your now wonderful life and your marriage

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