an old crony of mine paraphrased an old gospel song thus: I was sinking deep in sin, wheeeeeeeeeee! well, whee is how I feel, as I note we have achieved 3000 members! this club has been around less than a year and five months, and I am gratified by the response. I've made some new friends, and kept up with long time friends. thanks, guys!! now to the boys: yesterday, I weenied out and said you choose. today, I'll feature salt-and-pepper - dark-haired Mark Rutter, he of the wondrous wang, and Marcus Ryan, a blonde buddy who I only wish I could love professionally and properly. boy!