User NinjaP1212 wants to ask:
So I'm almost 40. Been in a few relationships, one long term, but now single for a few years. Due to COVID ramifications, I invited a friend to move in with me after a furlough/layoff scare for both of us. Against my better judgement, we hook up once every 1-2 weeks. I've never had a FWB before. I went from late bloomer to relationships with men. We don't say a word about it and it's not the least bit romantic. At this point I know the drill. I catch a little smirk from him, he'll pinch my nips as he walks by me, and a little later we're at it. He's always 'prepared' to bottom, so it's not exactly spontaneous. We've never done it in a bed, never kissed, and don't always even get fully naked. It's very mechanical and in 10-15 minutes we're done and it's not spoken of or insinuated for another week. I haven't had a roommate in 20+ years. Normally this would totally be against my better judgement, but to be honest I hadn't had sex in 5 months, he's attractive and so far it's pretty easy. It's like we have our own don't ask don't tell policy.
Do I eventually encourage a conversation about it? Let it go? Don't say a word? I don't presume he lives in my house many more months. As much as I enjoy the physical part of it, on some level it does feel a little dirty or guilty?